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Use ?I? messages, not ?you? messages For example: ?I feel that I need to start a new life.? ?I feel that this marriage is not working for me.? Do not say, ?You never did your share. You were a lousy husband/wife.? etc. This can help to make the divorce conversation feel like less of an attack on your spouse.

Before having a divorce discussion, consider whether you ever feel unsafe around your spouse. If you do, let trusted friends and family members know what you're planning. If possible, meet with a family law attorney and family therapist before talking with your spouse about separation or divorce when abuse is a factor!

Give your spouse a written explanation via email or letter. If you are afraid you cannot verbally lay out your reasoning, this may be a good compromise, but it can still come across as cold or passive. If you go this route, be very careful with your wording, and consider being in the same room as your spouse reads it.

What You Should Include in a Divorce Letter Start the letter with something like ?The previous night was tough on me. ... An explanation of your decision. ... How to proceed with the next steps. ... Your name, your spouse's name, and the date you sent the letter.

What Should Be Included in a Settlement Agreement? Identifying information for all involved parties. A description of the issue you're seeking to settle. An offer of resolutions that both parties agree to. Proof of valid consideration from both parties without coercion or duress. Legal purpose.

I am asking for a divorce because our marriage has become unworkable and there is no reasonable expectation that we will get back together. My spouse and I do not have any children together who are under 18 or still in high school.