I joined TNPC last month; however, I still need to write the letter officially terminating my membership at my parents' Methodist Church. You can always write a formal letter to your local church board stating your request and the reasons why.Do not go to meetings with the leaders with great arguments about why you are right. I am looking for some advice on how to resign my membership at my church, on good terms, but still occasionally attend. Minister may remain in the Church parsonage until ______, when it must be vacated. HUDNALL (Circuit Court, Thirteenth Judicial Circuit in and for Hillsborough County). Carefully and prayerfully. You need to speak truth, but in a non offensive way.