A withdrawal is a unilateral and unfounded breaking with the church of which one is a member. One simply resigns, either by telling the ward elders or by writing a letter to the consistory. A church may for a while make no announcement regarding the withdrawal, but in time an announcement will be made.
Communicate respectfully with the pastor about your decision to leave. In doing so, it is appropriate to express appreciation for the things that were received during your time at the church. Express sincere thanks for the pastor's ministry and the church's to you.
Let your pastor know the main reasons you are leaving, but do so with humility, love and grace. Be wise and thoughtful about this. Be sure to let your pastor know some of the things you are thankful for regarding your time at your church. I'm sure there are plenty of things you are thankful for.
So, here are a few thoughts about how to leave a church well, with one bonus thought at the end. 1) Pray about it. Sometimes people leave their church for the right reasons, and sometimes not. 2) Take responsibility. 3) Communicate. 4) Be kind. 5) Go to church somewhere. Love like Jesus.
Set up a time to talk directly to one of the pastors of your church about your leaving. This is a key step in leaving a church well. You don't need to share all of your reasons or rationale, but as a matter of love and courtesy, let your pastor know you and your family have chosen to go to another church.
How to write a church resignation letter Use the appropriate salutation. Before starting the body of your letter, include the proper salutation for the person you're writing to. Express your intent to leave the church. Provide reasons for your departure. Express your gratitude. Offer your assistance. Include a sign-off.
HOW TO LEAVE WELL Say farewell. If possible—and this is not always the case—say goodbye to those you know. Don't lead an exodus. Leaving a church and finding a new one can be exciting, particularly after a long struggle. Discuss your transition with the new pastor(s).
How to write a church resignation letter Use the appropriate salutation. Before starting the body of your letter, include the proper salutation for the person you're writing to. Express your intent to leave the church. Provide reasons for your departure. Express your gratitude. Offer your assistance. Include a sign-off.
So, here are a few thoughts about how to leave a church well, with one bonus thought at the end. Pray about it. Sometimes people leave their church for the right reasons, and sometimes not. Take responsibility. Communicate. Be kind. Go to church somewhere.