The best thing to do is to explain the reasons for leaving so that the church is not hurt or mystified as to why you are leaving. Customizing your Leaving a Church Letter is easy with Jotform Sign.Be honest, be upfront, and be loving and gentle. Maybe you are thinking about leaving the one you are currently at? Maybe you just left a church and are "shopping" for just the right church? We love each of you so much, and are very sad to say goodbye. We have grown so much during our time here. I am no longer a member of the church of jesus christ Of later day Saints . I have removed my records. I worked as a church leader at St Mary's for around 10 years, and now, with Hannah and our three wonderful daughters, we've moved to LA to start bread in 2016.