Dear Chairman Board of Elders,. I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church."I am no longer a member of this church. I do not need your permission, nor do I care whether or not you agree with my decision. "Signed,. How do I write a letter to change my church membership? This is an almost unanswerable question without context. Easily withdraw your membership from a church with our free Church Membership Withdrawal Letter Template. _____ Please withdraw my membership with the understanding that, at any time in the future, I may have my membership reinstated. _____ I now live in. If it's a very formal church, they may want you to withdraw your membership in the congregation.