Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. Kindly consider what you have just read.Church members should exercise graciousness and courtesy in leaving a church. "Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God. How do I communicate my reasons for leaving gracefully and honestly to my church? The joy of the gospel fills the hearts and lives of all who encounter Jesus. BIBLE VERSES stored in our memory and in our hearts can help us in time of need.