If you were received as a church member at confirmation you can send a letter to the church and ask that you membership be terminated. The Book of Discipline provides that members can be removed from the membership role if they "transfer, die or have withdrawn from membership.Reject preferential treatment in the church on the basis of wealth and income. If the member does not comply with any of the available alternatives over a period of two years, the member's name may be removed. Your membership in the church is voluntary according to the law. You may end a voluntary relationship at any time. "if a professing member residing in a community is negligent of the vows or is regularly absent from the worship of the church without a valid reason . . . Accordingly, we are unable to offer a path to separation from the United Methodist Church for local churches. And more broadly to members of The United Methodist Church. You cannot revoke confirmation; you may request that your name be removed from the church's membership rolls.