Do not assume his answer and wait for him to say it. It would not be fair to play the guessing game with something as serious and sensitive as marriage.In arranged marriages one starts with lower expectations and realizes the need for compromise that is essential in a successful bond. Not for myself; I was actually the scout. 1994 Te Rarawa woman of mana, teacher, storekeeper, community leader. It was when Vinit was 23 that Mrs. Sethi told him it was time to stop ''goofing around'' and marry. A Royally Suite Experience.