Have some random questions, but first meeting should be to gauge if they are interested. Ask dealbreakers initially or 5 mins later. UpvoteIt is a more pertinent concern than say horoscope, caste, lofty family history etc as it could have a material impact on the couple's wellbeing. Marriage back then was not based on love; most marriages were political arrangements. Husbands and wives were generally strangers until they first met.