It is better to lean in on conservative until you know the family well. Indo-western mix would be a good bet -- a nice short kurti with formal pants would be both elegant and not trying too hard. Kurti does not have to be silk. Even a nice cotton one (that looks new) would look good and you would be comfortable.
What encouraged/excites her to meet you? Is she willing to marry you? Is she taking this decision happily or under family pressure? Does she want to work after marriage? Is she comfortable moving out of station if situation comes? Is she willing to stay with family after marriage or want to stay separately?
Look for someone with similar goals and aspirations for stability and harmony. 6. Take your time: Don't rush into a decision; be patient in getting to know your potential partner. Arrange several meetings so that you get enough time to evaluate the compatibility and suitability of the relationship.
Ask about the next meeting if you want to move forward. Arranged marriages tend to happen pretty quickly, so there's no time to beat around the bush. You can say something like, “I've really enjoyed spending time with you. I'd like to set up a second meeting. What do you think?”
Keep the everything simple. Be the real one the who you are. Don't try to be over smart. it can backfire. Ask about each other hobbies interests . Don't ask about his work in details if you are form different streams... After some time you will reach a point whe
Talk about your careers, passions, hobbies, likes and dislikes and answer them honestly as you both would be husband-wife if everything goes well. Also, don't just answer to his questions, ask your questions and his takes on every aspect. Good Luck!
What are red flags in an arranged marriage? Designer accessories. Not knowing how to cook. Coming from a severely dysfunctional family. Not having any productive hobbies. Gossip. wanting to rush the marriage date due to some xyz excuse. superstitous family.