Have any of you told your guests that you'd rather have a cash gift? How do I go about wording this in the invite?There is no proper way to word that, as it's rude to ask for money. And definitely do not put anything about gifts or money on your invitations. Your presence at our wedding is gift enough, but, should you wish to give a gift as well, a cash gift to put towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated. What wording is a good way to ask for monetary gifts in my wedding invitation? That's the most polite way I could think of . Below, we'll give you specific examples of what to write in a wedding card with money, with options for cash, gift cards, charity donations and checks. This article will provide you with some tips and guidelines on how to ask for cash wedding gifts politely and without offending anyone. Undergoing a name change in PA?