Spousal support (also known as alimony) is a court ordered payment from one spouse or domestic partner to help cover the other's monthly expenses. Once a divorce is final, you may receive (or pay) spousal or domestic partner support.This is called permanent or long-term spousal support. Start with paperwork. California shows gender neutrality when allowing a spouse to request spousal support in a divorce. Spousal support is not mandatory in California and will be awarded in divorce on a casebycase basis. Spousal support is sometimes awarded retroactively. Learn when and why this occurs and how California law addresses retroactive orders. If you are considering divorce in California, it is important to understand the alimony laws and how they may impact you. Spousal support is gender neutral: an ex-wife can be required to support her ex-husband.