Instructions. 1. Complete this form, including the affidavit on page 2. 2. Attach an Affidavit Concerning Children, form JD-FM-164.This basic motion is designed to assist individuals who want to modify an existing custody or visitation order. Affirmation In Support Of Motion That Reasonable Efforts Are Not Required. The child's name must be inserted at the top left of the first page. If you want to object to and change the ex parte order, you must file an objection and motion within 14 days after you are served with the ex parte order. Find Local Rules and Forms that provide procedures and guidelines for courts in Wake County. ECourts Services are now available. 1. Complete the form with accurate information. In Charlotte, a parent, or other interested party, is allowed to petition the court for an emergency child custody order or ex-parte order.