Legal documents for people with Alzheimer's and other dementias – learn about guardianship, power of attorney, living wills, living trusts and more. Once your person has lost capacity permanently, they can no longer fill out a medical POA form.We can't afford it and. Assuming you are still married, you would file a joint return, MFJ. That would include all income from both of you. You have to hire an attorney to go into court seeking a guardianship. I have cared for my wife for over 6yrs she went through the "I want to go home" stage it is distressing for both the sufferer and carer. Find information on care and local services for people with Alzheimer's or a related dementia and their families. The VA has Advance Directive form that can be filled out on paper, and scanned to become part of the Veteran's electronic medical record. Once legal documents are filled out, distribute copies to your care team, including your care partner, spouse, attorney and physicians.