Stay calm. Talk to your spouse. Try to understand what made your spouse come to this decision. Talk about how you will pace yourselves as you move toward divorce. Consider nesting for a period of time if you have children. Discuss a non-adversarial process. Accept and let go.
Yes, you can amend a marital settlement, with both parties agreeing.
Provided the judge did not yet rule on the petition and did not actually rule that you are divorced, you can still change your mind and you can still rescind your signature. Doing so may place the divorce into a contested status which would make the process longer and more expensive.
A divorce can become contested after originally being uncontested. If spouses find it difficult to cooperate with one another during mediation sessions, they may be unable to finish the process. This can cause them to contest their divorce instead to have a judge make decisions for marital issues.
In Arizona, the court that issued the original divorce decree retains jurisdiction over the case for the purpose of modifying the decree. To initiate the modification process, you must file a petition to modify with the court that issued the original divorce decree.
If a divorce decree has been issued, you can only contest it in extraordinary circumstances. You can still try to contest the term of the divorce, but you would face an uphill battle since you already agreed to them.
If your divorce has already been finalized, but you and your ex-spouse wish to change your mind, there isn't very much you can do, besides remarry. However, if you are still early on in the divorce process and you change your mind, you can still request to withdraw your petition or sign a form for voluntary dismissal.
Once the divorce decree is finalized, the unhappy party has some options left to change the agreement. He or she can petition the court to have the case reopened. This is difficult to do, though. If the circumstances of one of the parties have changed, then this may happen.
To initiate the modification process, you must file a petition to modify with the court that issued the original divorce decree. The petition must state the reasons for the modification and the changes you are requesting.
Yes, you can amend a marital settlement, with both parties agreeing.