Your spouse fills out a court form. Your spouse can fill out the Stay of Service of Earnings Assignment Order (form FL-455).If your spouse also has a child support earnings assignment, the employer takes child support out first. Trust us to guide you through Southern California's complex child support landscape, prioritizing your child's well-being at every turn. State-sponsored programs, such as self-help centers, can guide individuals in filling out necessary forms and understanding their rights regarding alimony. This list contains current links to state divorce forms where available. Some states may have additional requirements or restrictions. In this case, California law is clear and states that the obligation to pay alimony automatically ends. Spousal support and child support are often ordered together in a divorce. The Law Department assists local and out-of-state custodial parents in establishing an order of support from non-custodial parents.