The Debt Reduction Program provides eligible parents with past-due child support payments the opportunity to reduce the amount they owe to the government. Gather and provide copies of your income, assets, and monthly expenses.Send child support forgiveness form via email, link, or fax. You can also download it, export it or print it out. You must complete the necessary application forms. Please select and print the appropriate form(s). The Compromise of Arrears Program (COAP) is designed to help reduce your child support arrears (past due support) owed to the Government. I've helped my boyfriend participate in the arrears forgiveness program. â—‹ Have your sender fill out the FL-335 form, mail the envelope and sign the form. If nothing is owed, then both parents should ask the CSSD attorney or representative to prepare a stipulation waiving the arrears.