General Information and Instructions about Ending Your Marriage. Talk to a lawyer familiar with family law before filing anything with the court.This free program will help you fill out court forms to file for divorce. The interview asks questions and uses your answers to complete your forms. Fill in the blanks of the Notice to Defend and Claim Rights, and the. Complaint. Sign the Complaint and the Verification. 3. To begin the divorce process, the plaintiff must complete a "Complaint for Absolute Divorce" form and the "Civil Domestic Case Information Report. Field 1: Fill in the county in which the action is brought. Be consistent with other forms. A divorce case is started when a "Summons With Notice" or "Summons and Complaint" are filed with the County Clerk's Office.