Members of the State Bar of Texas have rejected a proposed change in the ethics rules that would have barred sex with clients. No. INCREDIBLY unethical?An attorney fell in love with their client while representing them in court? Lawyers who want to date former clients should thus wait until the entire action is over before starting the relationship. My client had been sleeping with the husband's attorney, without my knowledge or any suspicion, during the entire period of the divorce proceedings. Lawyers have the professional obligation to avoid improper relationships or forgo the attorney-client relationship altogether. There is no way to have both. That may well be a problem for your lawyer. Most states have adopted ethical rules making it a violation to have sex with clients. "Professional Misconduct" includes: Page 6. 6. 1.