These guides are designed to help you fill out the forms yourself, and are not intended to provide legal advice nor strategy as to how to complete the case. If you need a judge to make an order as soon as possible due to an emergency, you can file a request for a temporary emergency order.All forms must be completely filled out. A party may not request orders in the judgment which were not requested in the petition. This guide is designed to help you fill out the forms yourself. It is not intended to provide legal advice nor strategy as to how to complete the case. I highly recommend you hire a family law attorney to draft the Ex Parte Motion and take it to the judge for his or her signature. Reserve hearing dates for motions in a select number of courtrooms. Courtroom Information. The reason for an ex-parte custody order must be explained in the motion filed with the court.