The motion must include a written certification that the proper notice has been given. 2. Remember, a temporary or pendente lite custody order is not a final order.Most Maryland family law court forms are in this index. At the Commissioner's office, you will be asked to fill out a form, called a Petition. Use this form to ask the court to give an order that the court or another party to the case do something. You must file your written motion with the court. File Necessary Motions: If advised, file a motion for clarification or modification of the temporary order to include explicit contact terms. 3. In emergency custody cases, the burden of proof lies with the parent filing the motion. You must convincingly demonstrate that the child is in immediate danger. Just because you have sole custody does not means mother will be out of her life or can't have contact.