There are different types of restraining orders. Most restraining orders can order a person to not contact someone and stay away from them.You can file your papers online (called e-filing). Go to your court's website to find out how to e-file. This video explains the service of process in civil harassment restraining order cases and what you need to know about serving court papers. Violation of Oakland domestic violence restraining orders could result in severe penaties including jail time and fines. Call an experienced lawyer today. The Friend of the Court assists the court administrator on issues of custody, parenting time and support, including medical and spousal. Below you will find information about the services we offer online, and in-person at our Oakland and Tri-Valley office locations. You will be asked to complete a case questionnaire, which is provided at the time of your review.