This packet contains forms and instructions to request a protective order. All California courts use the same basic set of forms for civil harassment restraining orders.You can find the most commonly-used forms on this page. Reason(s) for Protective Order: (Mark all that apply). The Respondent committed family violence, dating violence, or child abuse. The first step in getting a civil harassment restraining order is to tell the court about the harassment, stalking, threats, or harm you've experienced. The Instructions for Completing the Orders – currently under the Temporary Ex Parte Order form – apply to all orders, including the MOEP. How do I ask for a Protective Order? Fill out the following forms found in this kit: Do I use the Affidavit or Declaration form? Veterans Benefits Administration provides financial and other forms of assistance to veterans and their dependents.