If you're asking to change an existing order, make sure you use the same case number as your existing order. Ask to change or end the restraining order.Fill out forms and file them with the court. Forms may be obtained from the Self-Help Center and click Simplified modification of support order. The only way to modify an existing court order is to either get the other party to agree (and sign a stipulation and order to be filed with the court) Making a request only requires you to submit one form: Form FL-300, the Request For Order. Once filed with a court, the process will begin in earnest. Filing a motion for temporary orders in your case gives you a way to get a temporary custody order while you wait for your case to go through the court system. Initial and Modification. Determinations. The UCCJEA governs courts' jurisdiction to issue permanent, temporary,40 initial, and modification orders.