These links contain forms and instructions for obtaining a protective order. A protective order is sometimes mistakenly referred to as a restraining order.Reason(s) for Protective Order: (Mark all that apply). The Respondent committed family violence, dating violence, or child abuse. Fill out the following forms found in this kit: Do I use the Affidavit or Declaration form? Where do I file the forms? 6. Other Court Cases (other than criminal cases): Are there other court cases involving the Applicant, Respondent, or children? 1. Read the form thoroughly before starting. This article tells you about temporary orders and temporary restraining orders (TROs) in family law cases. File this form when you and the other party cannot agree to a temporary arrangement for parenting, child support, or other issues before the final hearing date.