This is a comprehensive guide to divorce in Virginia. On this webpage, you will be able to view this packet or download this as a Word document below.A Motion for Pendente Lite Relief seeks temporary support and other temporary rulings pending a Final Order of Divorce. A pendente lite (temporary) order may be used to settle custody and visitation issues until the parties can fully litigate or settle their case. I live in the US. My order began in PA and moved to NJ. If I failed to produce the children for visitation I would be in contempt of court. Procedures for Civil Actions, Name Changes, Annulment, Divorce and Criminal Cases. Clerk of Circuit Court - Procedures. If you've already been sent a temporary order to sign most likely you have a 10 day objection time frame in which you can object to the contents of the order. The Virginia Judicial System has a number of forms for each court available on the court's form page. If this does not work, you can go to your local law library and obtain a template that way, fill it out, modify it, and file it on your own behalf.