Express your condolences – It's not easy to come up with the right words for someone who has just lost a loved one. To the family of someone at work who has died."I am deeply sorry for your loss. We offer our condolences to the family of Alameda County Sheriff's Deputy Aubrey Phillips and the Alameda County Sheriff's Office . "Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts as you navigate this difficult period. Our district said they have a great deal of sympathy and concern and commitment to address systems that fail our children and families. Here are 10 tips on how to write a condolence letter and what to say and what not to say. Cities that make up Alameda County. After meeting with Alameda County District Attorney Pamela Price, Jasper Wu's family says they are still concerned they won't get "justice."