I am sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.Please accept my condolences on the loss of your partner. Thoughtful actions or words to use when reaching out should be focused on supporting those grieving. We are New York's Premier Funeral Home. Funeral Service is my ministry, and I want you to experience "The Carrillo Difference". Condolence: Sharon was my childhood friend from St Croix. I am saddened to hear of her passing. Here are some suggestions for expressing sympathy clearly and supportively to the bereaved. Email is fine, but avoid texting.