HannahI am so deeply sorry for the loss of that childyour lossyou lost her, too. The kindest thing you can do is simply say 'I am so very sorry for your loss.' or 'Please accept my most sincere condolences on your loss.'Be sincere and express your feelings of sympathy. Meaningful, personal, and compassionate letters of condolence can be both a tribute to the child who died and a source of comfort to the parents. Keep the letter as brief and as short as possible. Recently a teenage boy in my community committed suicide. I immediately sat down to write the parents a sympathy note. A message of condolence is a message in which you express your sympathy for someone because one of their friends or relatives has died recently. Just as parents of living children unconditionally love their children always and forever, so do bereaved parents. He was completing his third year (apprentice level) in the electrical technologies program at New Castle County Vo Tech.