HannahI am so deeply sorry for the loss of that childyour lossyou lost her, too. "I am deeply sorry for your loss.Use gentler words like "passing" or "loss" instead. Also avoid bringing up details about the death when considering what to write in a sympathy card. Be sincere and express your feelings of sympathy. "When we lose a life on earth, we gain an angel in heaven. So sad for your loss. Wishing you comfort and remembering the kind spirit that was your mom. I am truly sorry for your loss. The loss of a child is absolutely heart-breaking.