"I am deeply sorry for your loss. "I am deeply saddened to learn that your (mother, father, spouse, sibling, etc.) recently passed away.Please know that you have my deepest sympathy. Please know that I'm here for you if you need anything. A letter arrived in the mail and it was from Dr. Doan, his hematologist. Mom and dad were overwhelmed. Keep the focus on sending comfort and support to the person you're writing to, and don't assume you understand exactly how they feel. I wanted to extend my deepest condolences to you at this time of such great pain and loss. To Monica Leatch and your family,My heartfelt condolences and prayers at the passing of your Father. The Texas governor was under fire for his mistake in a message to the Carter family following Jimmy Carter's death.