Send the very best deli, pastries, fresh fruit, and dessert trays directly to the mourning family in Fairfax, VA. Same day delivery available in most areas. Your loved one's full name, Social Security number and date of death.A mailing address where claim information can be sent. The team at Demaine Funeral Home – Fairfax is here for you if you need to speak to someone right away. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Wishing you comfort and peace during this difficult time. 1. Complete and send the Summary of Benefits checklist (Attachment 2 of this BAL), with a condolence letter, applicable claim forms and annuity estimate. Our mutual friend, XXX let me know of your bereavement. I was very sorry to hear of XXX's passing. What is your name, address, telephone number, and relationship to the deceased?