Express your grief and support to the employee or their family. " "We would like to express our sincere condolences to you and your family.Hi Denise just write a simple note to the family and say you how you knew the deceased. Mention all the good times you had with this person. Please know that I'm here for you if you need anything. I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. Aurimar long dreamed of helping her family.