Acknowledge the loss and name the deceased. One simple rule can guide you: Say what you truly feel.A single sincere line expressing the genuine feeling you had for the deceased is all you need to write. Please accept my condolences, and be assured that you and your family are continually in my thoughts during this difficult time for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. I'm so sorry for your loss. To help get you started with writing your perfect card, we've compiled a list of beautiful sympathy messages and quotes for nearly every type of loss. Please accept our sincerest condolences during this time of loss. You did everything right, and in the end, mistakes was stil made. Just like you, being in the healthcare profession.