Acknowledge the loss and name the deceased. Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this incredibly difficult time.I love you, and I'm sending my condolences. My family and I are so sorry for your loss. Use gentler words like "passing" or "loss" instead. Also avoid bringing up details about the death when considering what to write in a sympathy card. Share a positive memory of thoughtfulness, warmth, or other positive qualities the loved one possessed if you were also close with the deceased. I'm so incredibly sorry for the loss of your husband and father. Please know that he will live on in all of our fond memories. Loss of husband sympathy card with lake scene and tall pines to extend your condolences on the loss of husband.