I am so sorry for the loss of your son. Even in his death you have helped others."I am deeply sorry for your loss. Avoid using uncomfortable words that may indicate that the death was tragic or gruesome. When writing your letter, imagine yourself in the other person's place. Acknowledge the family's loss; Focus on remembering the child; End with an offer of specific help or show of care and support. Condolence letter opening. Reaching out and expressing sympathy with a thoughtful condolence letter can offer comfort, solace, and strength to someone grieving the death of a loved one. "When we lose a life on earth, we gain an angel in heaven. My heart aches for you, and I hope you find strength in the love and support surrounding you.