Be sincere and express your feelings of sympathy. Make sure you include the name of the person who died or mention the specific incident that caused sorrow for the person.If you are in Nassau, Bahamas, come in the Conference Headquarters on Tonique Darling Highway and sign the Book of Condolences. Sharing my heartfelt condolences with you at this challenging time. Know that you're always in our thoughts. Writing a condolence message is never easy. We've compiled a few expert tips and provided several sympathy note ideas to use in any scenario here. Writing a condolence message is never easy. We've compiled a few expert tips and provided several sympathy note ideas to use in any scenario here. The former U.S. first lady died on Nov.