Suffering the loss of your mother pains and stings unlike anything else. Please accept my sincere condolences and send much love to your family.Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this incredibly difficult time. Here are my guidelines for writing a sympathy note: 1. Here are 10 tips on how to write a condolence letter and what to say and what not to say. To the Girl Who Lost Her Mom, It goes without saying that I am incredibly sorry for your loss. When my mom died, a coworker (who has now become a friend) asked me about her. "I'm so sorry for your loss, what was your mom like? We pray that in this time of loss, You'll feel God's love much more And that you'll find your comfort In the presence of the Lord. "I'm sorry for your loss.