Try To Write The Letter By Hand. If you're at a loss for words, these thoughtful condolences and sympathy messages can help express your support to loved ones."Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. A simple "I'm sorry" is sometimes the only thing that is necessary to say. (1)Address the letter to the family member or members. (2)Acknowledge the loss. Thank you for sharing Casey and my deepest sympathies for the tragedies of your life. "Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. The Medical Examiner's Office conducts investigations of violent, sudden, unexpected, and suspicious deaths occurring within the County. When Shawn died, I got a lot of condolence letters.