Compliment the one who is gone share a connection or memory you have with the child. Be sincere and express your feelings of sympathy.A simple "I'm sorry" is sometimes the only thing that is necessary to say. "I am deeply sorry for your loss. Meaningful, personal, and compassionate letters of condolence can be both a tribute to the child who died and a source of comfort to the parents. It's for all you parents who are grieving the loss of a child to suicide or those who are attempting to support grieving family and friends. Please accept my sympathy for your sad loss. To the family who have lost a child. The funeral home and our office will submit the information that goes on the death certificate to the state within 5 days of the death. A Sandy mother could spend the rest of her life in prison after she was found guilty of abusing her young son and causing his death in 2019.