What To Write in a Sympathy Card? "I am deeply saddened to learn that your (mother, father, spouse, sibling, etc.) recently passed away.Please know that you have my deepest sympathy. Be sincere and express your feelings of sympathy. "I am deeply sorry for your loss. The City Clerk is the Local Registrar of births and deaths in Bexar County. Learn how to request a birth or death certificate. Sending you lots of love and comfort, we are so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you in these difficult times. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on his death, together with my promise of a continued remembrance of him at Holy Mass so that he will have eternal rest.