HannahI am so deeply sorry for the loss of that childyour lossyou lost her, too. Be sincere and express your feelings of sympathy.I am so sorry to hear of your great loss and my condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. Keep the letter as brief and as short as possible. A letter offering sympathy for the death of a child respectfully acknowledges the reader's misfortune while offering comfort and support. Meaningful, personal, and compassionate letters of condolence can be both a tribute to the child who died and a source of comfort to the parents. The trauma of my child's loss will become a permanent part of me. And while I will integrate this pain, I will also always miss my child. Acknowledge the loss. Just as parents of living children unconditionally love their children always and forever, so do bereaved parents.