Be sincere and express your feelings of sympathy. "I am deeply sorry for your loss.Keep the letter as brief and as short as possible. The Santa Clara Police Department offers our condolences to the family and friends of the juvenile. Support Groups – Pathways has support groups for spouses, for adults who lose parents, for loss of a child, and drop-in groups. My sincere condolences on the loss of your son. The amount of love definitely has a lot to do with the amount of grief. Public Administrator. For More Information Please Contact: Assessor Property Transfer Unit County Government Center East Wing, 5th Floor 70 West Hedding Street "Holding you close in my thoughts and hoping you are doing OK." "Even though there is joy in the homegoing, there is sorrow in your loss.