You do not need to express condolences for your own loss. To the family of someone at work who has died.We are so very sorry for your loss. Make sure you include the name of the person who died or mention the specific incident that caused sorrow for the person. Ram Dass wrote a letter some years ago to a family who had lost their young daughter, Rachel. Wayne was a funeral director's funeral director. He was caring, concerned, and compassionate in abundance, and he was also a natural leader. I'm so sorry about your father's death. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. To everyone in the Kessanis family, my family and I extend our deepest condolences.