The same forms are used, to modify a Custody Decree, Parenting Plan or Residential Schedule in dissolution, nonparental custody and paternity cases. (Put one parent's name in each column and fill out when the children will be with that parent for holidays and school breaks.) Page 8.Blank forms to print and fill out on your own, with how-to instructions for completing and filing. Use this if you are not married to your child's other parent. Most counties will not enter final dissolution orders without also entering a parenting plan and order on child support. Fill out this form if you are asking for Residential Schedule: Residential Schedule. We recommend that you file a plan when first filing your case in the court. Unfortunately, there is no real answer to this question. Legally you could pursue a contempt action against your ex-wife for not following the parenting plan. Now 17 year old wants to live with you and your husband?