Sample thank you notes and expert 'how to' advice to help you write a thank you letter to your wedding officiant following the ceremony. A good general plan for a wedding gift thank you is to 1) acknowledge the gift, 2) elaborate on why you like it or how you'll use it, 3) compliment the giver.Thank you for officiating our wedding. We would like to thank you very much for making our wedding event so special and perfect! Everyone had a great time. Thank you for your generous laughter and your unpretentious nature. Dear Stephen, Thank you for making our vision a reality on our wedding day. The best way is to be sincere and express your gratitude for their thoughtfulness. "The LOVE letters were such an outstanding centerpiece at our wedding. A good general plan for a shower thankyou is to: 1.