Everything you need to write a declaration letter to the judge in your custody case: an example, a downloadable template, an outline and tips. Local Forms, Adoption Forms, Family Law Forms, Juvenile Forms, Probate and Court Investigator's Forms, Small Claims Forms, Traffic FormsFill out a Request for Order form. A person filling out a form. What parents and witnesses need to know about character reference letters to the court for child custody. Includes a downloadable sample and template. Family Court Official Court, Judicial, County, Agency and Legal Forms. In order to file an Ex Parte Request For Order for Child Custody and Child Visitation, you need to file and serve the following documents: And how do I bring up the letter in the motion? It's important to come across as sincere and dependable in the eyes of the judge evaluating the letter.