Fill out the Affidavit of Service and turn in to the Clerk of Court Office. Fill out: Certificate of Divorce.This packet provides information, steps, and forms for getting an absolute divorce. This packet is designed for use with a video that provides step-by-step instructions on how to file for divorce in North Carolina without a lawyer. Durham County courts offer a form packet for people representing themselves in divorce proceedings. Instructions and court forms for requesting a divorce, for NC residents who do NOT have an attorney. The following are links to example NC Court forms for Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Name Change, and Paternity Forms. The certificate of absolute divorce is not available online. It is a smaller document, on special paper, as it will remain in vital records permanently. Watch our free online Simple Divorce Clinic to learn how to file a simple divorce action in court without hiring an attorney.