Explain why you feel you deserve leniency. Dear judge (name), I am writing to ask for leniency in the sentencing of my husband, because (then give all your reasons and speak only from your heart).Use examples, illustrations, and stories from your relationship to help the sentencing judge learn about the "real" person. Here are suggested guidelines, if you want to write a letter of support for a friend, family member, or loved one for their sentencing hearing. The core of your letter should explain why you believe the judge should show leniency towards the defendant.