Family law-When writing to letter to the judge. What information would be pertinent to put in and what should you avoid?In this article, we will discuss how to write a formal letter to a judge, along with the proper format and a sample letter. Always address a judge as "Your Honor". It doesn't matter if you are speaking or writing, or in or out of court. These are the official forms for use in Family Court proceedings. Complaint for Absolute Divorce (CC-DR-020): Use this form if you want to file for divorce. Vital Records has the Certificate of Dissolution of Marriage for all divorces or civil annulments for New York State since 1963. Each of the documents listed below include a blank form and the instructions to fill out that form. Each of the documents listed below include a blank form and the instructions to fill out that form.